#radicalselflove · A Voluptuous Mind · Self Care · Self Love

Nap Queen

I love to sleep. I rarely lie in past 9 on the weekend but I am partial to an afternoon nap and truth be told if I know this is a viable option, I will look forward to it until the moment I can slip my clothes off and climb beneath the duvet. The absolute… Continue reading Nap Queen

A Voluptuous Mind · Life

Old Wounds

As a person who worries way too much about what other people think of me, I often agree to things I don't want to do. Nothing crazy, just meetings that don't really hold any value for either party involved, that are arranged just to tick a box. An obligation box if you will. That might… Continue reading Old Wounds

A Voluptuous Mind · Summer · Thoughts

Watching Girls Go By

I feel like I spend most of my summer months obsessively people watching. Watching girls to be precise. I can take or leave men in summer or any month of the year - but women in the sunshine are something else. The best outfits come out in the Spring as we tiptoe cautiously into the… Continue reading Watching Girls Go By

A Voluptuous Mind · Acceptance · Ageing · Self Love

Ageing

I posted this on Instagram late Saturday night in a moment of candidness and it got quite a heartwarming response. So I thought, why not share it here? It's one of the things I think of the most at the moment, the relentless passing of time and how it affects my self-esteem. I know it's… Continue reading Ageing

A Voluptuous Mind · Seasons

Crisp

I've had my first Pumpkin Spice Latte of the year so it is officially Autumn and therefore the real New Year. Fuck January and the blues that subsequently follow the turn of the year. Fuck wet weather and grey days. This is my new beginning, that beautiful crossover, from Summer into burnt and rusty Fall.… Continue reading Crisp

A Voluptuous Mind · Mental Health

Begin

I'm starting again. Again. I'm delighted about it and I'll write more soon when I can get all my thoughts together but for now, just know that I'm making solid plans to feel happier. That is my bottom line. Oh, and obviously it's not all that major, just a job change. I'm not selling all… Continue reading Begin

A Voluptuous Mind · Pick Your Fucks · Self Love

Revenge Body

I'm sure most people have read or seen somewhere that Khloé Kardashian (formerly my favourite) has a new show called Revenge Body. While I haven't seen it, and probably won't, I feel I know enough to say it sounds bad. KK gets people to tell their stories, about who they want revenge on (exes/haters) and then… Continue reading Revenge Body